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Is Love Necessary for Great Sex?

luni, 17 mai 2010 18:43 Publicat de Adrian
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Some people are certain that sex should be great and ground-shaking, if there's true love. This isn't true. Such people are unable to distinguish between sex and love. Let's take a look at some common traits, fears and convictions of people who cannot distinguish between love and sexuality.

Sex can be great without love. (jlp)

Some believe that sexuality and love are one and the same thing

People who equate sexuality and love and narrow true love to finding their ideal sexual partner are just as miserable as those who have chronic feelings of loneliness and lack of love, which brings them to the point when they constantly change their sexual partners. Sexual act alone gives them the feeling of acceptance and love, but they must soon face their loneliness again, until they find a new partner.

An ideal sexual partner?

A person may find an ideal sexual partner, have a great sex life with them and speak of true love, even though they don't get along in many other areas of life. They both believe that great sex is a sign of true love and are absolutely sure that they are in love, despite all their differences.
Sex and love can have an entirely separate existence. (jlp)

Some couples break up because of their bad sex life

Many people break up their relationships due to the decrease in the quality, intensity and frequency of their sexual intimacy, since they equal sexuality and love, and they simply think that there is no love between them anymore.

But it is wrong to equate love and sexuality. There is a connection between them, but they can still exist one without the other. Partners can have excellent sex life without love, and vice versa, deep true love can exist without great sex.

Sexuality is a skill and needs a lot of practice. Love is quite the opposite - you cannot learn how to feel it! What will be the deciding factor when you start a new relationship - love, sexuality or something else? Well, that depends entirely on you.


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How Do Women Manipulate Men With Their Breasts?

vineri, 30 aprilie 2010 15:44 Publicat de Adrian
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Breasts have always been women's main weapon when it comes to seduction, and women can use them to manipulate men.

A long time ago, breasts used to serve breastfeeding only

The basic function of breasts is of course feeding a new-born baby who has no teeth and who needs highly nutritious food for normal development. That's how simple things were back in the times when people haven't yet discovered eroticism. Throughout the history, everything changed, of course, and we have been left a great number of paintings or sculptures where female breastsseem to be accentuated with the attention of arousing a male viewer. But it's only in the modern society that people have become obsessed with women's breasts to the extent of using them mostly for manipulation. Silicon has at present become a necessity for every woman in the showbusiness, especially movie actresses and pop singers. The bigger their breasts are, the more attention they get. The more times a woman shows them, the bigger her price "on the market". The lower her neckline, the more photos of her there'll be in the tabloids. Naturally, this affects teenagers, whose breasts are still growing, so that they experience anxiety, partly also due to the fact that their male schoolmates seem to see only breasts when they look at women.

Breasts have turned into women's weapon in modern society. (jlp)

A feeling of inferiority

A teenage girl whose breasts develop late or even don't develop much can get a feeling of inferiority when comparing herself to more bosomy peers that receive more attention from the boys. On the other hand, full-breasted girls often feel uncomfortable when faced with being the object of the sexual desire of most boys and men (who stare at them). They may feel that men only care about their bodies and ignore their personality.

A lot of girls get depressed because of the appearance of film stars, who love silicon, but don't admit it, of course. Moreover, breasts mostly consist of body fat and when girls lose weight, they're again faced with ambiguity and despair. Some even decide for plastic surgery, as breasts can sag due to their losing flesh, while some women try using "magical" creams for breast enlargement and breastlift. These creams can even be harmful.

Women should above all keep in mind that the size of their breasts has nothing to do with their sexuality and their ability to live out a full-blooded life of a woman. The size of your breasts doesn't play a significant role in your first contact with a man who's interested in a serious relationship.


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A variety of shapes and sizes

Mother nature's imagination knows no bounds when it comes to both size and shape of female breasts. This is true for the areolas and nipples, too. Firm and protruding breasts, which are seen most frequently in advertisements (where there's good old Photoshop at work), are rare among common mortals. Especially among young women, the most typical are lovely small breasts and even a somewhat boyish figure. We have to keep in mind that the shape and the size of women's breasts are often deceptive and constructed, not to say manipulative, as they're determined by the fashion industry and photography techniques. A bra is also an important factor, as it effectively hides reality. In the 1920s, the ideal was the boyish figure and women with large breasts wore dresses that flattened that part of their body. Around the year 1950, conical breasts were in, while the 1970s ushered in sexual revolution together with the desire for big and openly shown breasts.
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Clitoral Or Vaginal Orgasm?

joi, 29 aprilie 2010 13:33 Publicat de Adrian
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Where is the secret of the female orgasm? In the clitoris or the vagina? Do not miss this article!

 The clitoris has been neglected for far too long!
The female orgasm stirs our minds and imagination. It is much less visible, compared to the men's orgasm. It is mysterious and to a large extent yet unexplored. For this reason, there are still quite a few myths present as regards women and their sexuality.

According to Koedt, there exists only the clitoral orgasm

In the 1970s, feminist Anna Koedt aroused a lot of controversy by claiming there is only one real female orgasm, according to her opinion. This is the clitoral orgasm. Before her, the father of psychoanalysis claimed that the only real orgasm for women was the vaginal orgasm. Both of them derived their findings from the situation in the then society. Koedt's thesis on the clitoral orgasm was probably based on a desire to oppose the belief that women who do not experience vaginal orgasm are frigid.

The concept of frigidity

Of course, the time has passed since then. We still wonder about the female orgasm.How do you know she came?

Lack of knowledge about female sexuality is largely attributed to patriarchate, the dominance of men also in terms of production of knowledge, and the silence of women. Many times the conclusions of men were based on their own frustrations, which meant they understood and interpreted things in the wrong way. Men were the ones who defined women as frigid, an they still often draw support from Freud's beliefs. Relative lack of knowledge about the female anatomy has led to the psychiatric diagnosis of frigidity, which said that a woman was frigid because she was unable to adapt to the (inferior) social role of a woman. Frigidity was therefore a double burden for a woman, who was stamped by this diagnosis to be abnormal both physically and psychologically.

Vagina vs. clitoris

We therefore have two researchers. Her and him. They both come from their own time. She follows his discoveries. Later she opposes and supplements them. In any case, we should not take her or his research out of the then social context. He says the vagina is the centre, and she redirects attention to the clitoris. In the past, women were mainly presented as rather non-sexual beings, which was also the result of a high degree of frigidity that was measured by how many women experienced vaginal orgasm. Freud did not reach his conclusions on the basis of knowledge about the female anatomy but on the basis of speculation and a belief that women are inferior to men, on the basis of glorifying the almighty penis. The men’s rejection of the importance of the clitoris was probably also based on the fear that, once women would find out that the penis is not the only ride to heaven, they would reject them.
However, certain followers of Freud have (unfortunately) dealt with the female anatomy and even arrived at the conclusion that female frigidity can be healed with an operation, as the reason for frigidity was the fact that the clitoris and vagina are too far apart (by the way, wasn't that indirectly admitting the importance of the clitoris?). However, they were basically not interested in women. They only tried to shape the female body so as to finally suit their ideas.
Mutilation of the body is not the only damage they caused with their "scientific" work. They did even greater damage to the female psyche, to the self-image of women. Many women had a feeling of guilt because they did not manage that which was presumably natural for them. Thirdly, damage was also done in the sense that women were robbed of experiencing pleasure in sexual intercourse. At the beginning of marriage, many young women were told: “be patient, it won't last long”.
The female orgasm doesn't depend solely on either the vagina or the clitoris, the psychological and mental arousal, foreplay, or the penis size. Kinsey came to a conclusion in his tests that only 14% of women have intense feelings on the inside of the vagina. This is nothing terrible because the vagina also has a number of other functions, apart from sexual satisfaction (periods, birth etc.).
The female body is capable of orgasming whichever way.

Does the vaginal orgasm depend on the G-spot?


Let's put another woman into the equation. Emmanuelle Jannini emphasises physical differences between women and says some women who have a pronounced G-spot are capable of experiencing the vaginal orgasm, while others can only experience the clitoral one. The conclusion could therefore be that the clitoral orgasm is more typical of all women and the vaginal one is rather an exception than a rule.

Glorifying one type of orgasm over another reminds me of the war of two worlds where only one can prevail and there is no room for compromise. The fact that remains is that the centre of the orgasm is difficult to pinpoint.

Trying to come to the bottom of the female orgasm seems absurd. Packing a woman into one clear frame seems a crime, as there is not only one type of a woman. This is perhaps the only mystery which you need to know about women.



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Your Orgasm Depends On His Wallet?

luni, 26 aprilie 2010 13:29 Publicat de Adrian
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Maybe you're tempted to rebel and say that orgasm is physical pleasure, without any connection with the financial situation of your lover. But U.S. researchers shows that financial security increases physical pleasure. It's just a simple answer and your body's unconscious! Do not believe me?
Money=Security
Money provides security and certainty and this thing and see sex.Therefore,the intensity of orgasms and their number is supposed to connect to partner earnings.
Orgasm is an important piece of the puzzle for biologists because it is specific to only some species, and its purpose is unclear. Thus psychologists have found that choosing a partner is related to the evolutionary needs to guarantee survival, which means financial stability in our society.Besides facial symmetry and a well-sculpted body and attractive,money is one of the key factors for reproductive.
Orgasm and Money
A woman who knows that a man has money and can take care of her and her children will be more relaxed and sex will be able to enjoy more intimate relationships. This can not be mixed but with conscious thought and male-female relationships. Is only one answer "animal" sexuality factors.
China has conducted research on the sex lives of Chinese people, their income and other factors. Since 1500 participating women, 121 of them said they always have orgasms, 408 have often enough, they sometimes 762 and 243 rarely or never have orgasms.
Numbers match with those of surveys and research in Western countries. But research in conflict with results of surveys conducted on men who make judgments about their own sexual desire in terms of ability to give an orgasm.
But the news is not really that bad.Men now have at least two options:either to become rich or to improve their techniques in the bedroom.I would rather bet on the first !
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