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Is Love Necessary for Great Sex?

luni, 17 mai 2010 18:43 Publicat de Adrian
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Some people are certain that sex should be great and ground-shaking, if there's true love. This isn't true. Such people are unable to distinguish between sex and love. Let's take a look at some common traits, fears and convictions of people who cannot distinguish between love and sexuality.

Sex can be great without love. (jlp)

Some believe that sexuality and love are one and the same thing

People who equate sexuality and love and narrow true love to finding their ideal sexual partner are just as miserable as those who have chronic feelings of loneliness and lack of love, which brings them to the point when they constantly change their sexual partners. Sexual act alone gives them the feeling of acceptance and love, but they must soon face their loneliness again, until they find a new partner.

An ideal sexual partner?

A person may find an ideal sexual partner, have a great sex life with them and speak of true love, even though they don't get along in many other areas of life. They both believe that great sex is a sign of true love and are absolutely sure that they are in love, despite all their differences.
Sex and love can have an entirely separate existence. (jlp)

Some couples break up because of their bad sex life

Many people break up their relationships due to the decrease in the quality, intensity and frequency of their sexual intimacy, since they equal sexuality and love, and they simply think that there is no love between them anymore.

But it is wrong to equate love and sexuality. There is a connection between them, but they can still exist one without the other. Partners can have excellent sex life without love, and vice versa, deep true love can exist without great sex.

Sexuality is a skill and needs a lot of practice. Love is quite the opposite - you cannot learn how to feel it! What will be the deciding factor when you start a new relationship - love, sexuality or something else? Well, that depends entirely on you.


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How to Tackle a Blowjob for the First Time in Your Life?

18:01 Publicat de Adrian
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Every woman tackles a blowjob for the first time with at least some fear of failure. Allow me to make the start a bit easier for you.

How do I get psychologically ready for my first fellatio?

Ask yourselves why you want to do this. Before a woman puts it in her mouth, she usually finds it hard to believe that she could derive any pleasure out of it. If you’re not doing it out of curiosity but because of a feeling of duty, the experience will be unpleasant and the partner will not get much joy out of it as well. We recommend you view the penis as a mini version of your man – you must have wanted to eat him occasionally? Fellatio is the closest thing there is to making the wish for such intimacy come true.

How can I practice in advance?

You’re using your brain at this exact moment to have a better idea what to do with the other organs. You’ve probably heard expressions like “suck/eat/lick my dick” – you can use them to make an abstract thing seem more concrete. You can also suck your finger. Just try it! When you don’t think you look ridiculous anymore, you’ll perhaps even feel pleasure, which is about one percent of what your partner will feel down there. Once you suck your finger self-confidently, try sucking his finger as well. But don’t do this unless you plan to move to the areas south of his hand soon.

How to handle a blowjob for the first time?

What do I do with my hands?

When you decide it’s the right time to try giving a blowjob for the first time in your life, get to work on your partner with your hands first. For a start, it’s better to do fellatio on a very hard penis. Once you’ve mastered the skill, you can also test yourself on less hard cocks. If you’re performing a blowjob for the very first time, it might be a good trick to catch your partner completely by surprise by not telling him about it in advance - go from a handjob to oral action all of a sudden. Keep the hand at the root of the penis as some kind of movable base, which moves in unison with your mouth – so that you don’t have to go as far with your mouth as you would have to if you weren’t using your hands. If you decide to really surprise him, put it in your mouth instantly as deeply as possible. But you can prepare him first and start by kissing and playing with your tongue.

How do I use my lips?

You can slide with your lips on his penis, kiss him, etc. But don’t stick to just that. Embrace him firmly with your lips, so that you can suck him into you. You can test the sensations on your own fingers. The difference between sliding up and down and sucking is great, but not many beginners fathom this out.

What to do with the tongue?

You can draw, hit, fondle and wash the penis with your tongue before you even put it in your mouth, but you don’t need to stop doing this once it’s inside you.

Can I use my teeth?

Most men don’t like pain, especially not on such a sensitive area, so be careful! There are some men who like to be bitten – or to put it better, they like to have their penis between your teeth. Ask them.

Is it already time for deep throat?

Taking the whole penis inside you means that you’re really going to have to relax the throat, which is a big task for a beginner because it’s hard to find the right angle for putting the penis in. You can also have problems with the vomiting reflex. You might want to postpone the deep throat technique for next time, but if you’re relaxed enough, you can try it.
There’s another question with the throat: to swallow or not to swallow? Most beginners don’t do it, but if you want to really impress your partner, be brave. Why not set several milestones in one move? If you postpone it until next time, it will also be the first time.
Why should you even do this? The reasons against it are more or less familiar. The reasons for it are also clear: because you’ll be showing him you accept him in his entirety. The reasons can also be very practical: for example, so that you don’t have to clean the sperm off the seats in your mother’s car.

Looking him straight into the eyes will certainly thaw the owner of your low-calorie ice cream. (jlp)

Where to look?

To a man, fellatio is a very exciting scene visually as well: if he doesn’t enjoy the feeling of control when the woman is on her knees (in the classic type of fellation) in front of him, the sight of him penetrating into the partner’s mouth will definitely do the trick.
To make the scene even more arousing, look him straight in the eyes – that way he’ll be even more aware of what’s happening to him, the feeling of connection between you two will be greater and you’ll certainly be aroused by the sight of his ecstatic face. If nothing else, fellatio will at least offer you aesthetic pleasure!

Now you're ready for giving a blowjob for the first time. Enjoy it!
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For Men: Every Sex Fail You Do In Bed

17:53 Publicat de Adrian
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Sex Fail #1: Being overly gentle

Being gentle is nice, but not when shagging like animals, so stop yourself before asking questions starting with “Can I?” Do not ask, just do it. If she does not like it, you will notice it soon enough. Besides, women expect a good lover to know the next step and know how to get her ready for it without any questions. Sometimes a daring look by which you show the girl to lose her clothes may be enough, or a provocative touch of her body which clearly shows your intentions. Of course, we still like it when you shower us with gentle caresses and kisses occasionally, but this alone is not enough. But you cannot go wrong with being gentle after the action is over. Women feel blissful at that point and a little gentleness will not go amiss.

Sex Fail #2: Baby, did you come?

Perhaps a man sees things differently, especially in one-nighters. But if you do not want a girl to leave your bedroom disappointed and do not want her to remember you as a lover she never wants to go back to, make sure your sex does not look like a pair of bunnies shagging. Instead of having sex, make love... What does this mean? Never forget you are doing it with a WOMAN, not a doll, so pay more attention to her during sex and leave her some control. Kiss her body, tell her she smells nice, be passionate. This does not mean that every sexual act has to be flawless, but you can show her that you are thinking about her pleasure as well, not just yours. Be sensual and show that you are a first-rate lover.

Stop yourself before asking questions starting with "Can I?" (PhotoXpress)

Sex Fail #3: Grumbling and talking during intercourse

Grumbling too loudly, as well as too quietly of course, can be very irritating to a woman. You are probably wondering what they want. They definitely do not want quiet, so choose a middle path to show your emotions for the girl, but do not be so loud that the neighbours will find out. Try to be innovative and do not always repeat the same sentences and use the same nicknames. If you are with a woman you do not know well, avoid vulgar expressions. She may be wild in bed and you feel she may like a bit of vulgarity, but you can quickly go wrong when you say “fuck me, bitch” or something to that effect.

Sex Fail #4: Missionary AGAIN?!

Women do not like monotonous intercourse. That's a clear sex fail. They love new and interesting things. This applies especially if you are in a serious relationship going on for several years, where the sex gets boring. Do not be afraid to experiment in such times. Try different positions and let your fantasies loose. The world market is full of erotic products which can breathe fresh life into your bedroom, so do not be ashamed to suggest to your darling to buy one of them. If you are sceptical about her erotic desires, talk about them over a glass of wine and it is very possible that you will be surprised at how willing she is to use various sexual accessories.
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Use Your Tongue to Bring Her to a Heavenly Orgasm

vineri, 14 mai 2010 21:07 Publicat de Adrian
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It's common knowledge that women love to be caressed with the tongue. Give her all the pleasure you can!

Start by kissing the lips

Before you start spoiling her, let your partner know what she is in store for, namely that she is going to get some marathon tongue pleasuring and that you are in bed only to give her an unforgettable night. Start by kissing her lips. Start gently and slowly, then proceed more passionately, giving her a deep and wet kiss. Continue by kissing her neck and go down to her breasts, where you should play with her nipples and areolas. Take your time: her breasts are extremely sensitive and a powerful erogenous zone, so you can spend at least half an hour on them! When you lick one, caress the other. Do not lick only the nipples, work on the whole area of the breast and the part between the breasts (the cleavage) as well. Let her know that you adore her breasts and do not allow your tongue to forget a square inch of them!

A dedicated tongue massage begins by kissing the neck and the lips. (PhotoXpress)

Turn her over on her stomach and have fun with her back

When you are done with her breasts, turn her over on her stomach and start with her back. This is the second important and powerful erogenous zone. Give her a real treat by massaging her entire back with your tongue. We recommend you go from her behind to the neck with your tongue until she goes crazy from all the tingling and pleasure. During your "massage", you can stimulate her nipples with your hands and you can slowly start working on the anus with your tongue. Tell her to lift her behind a bit, so you will get to her breasts more easily and your tongue will have a much more pleasant journey to her anus. During the licking, combine massaging the breasts with the massaging of her clitoris, while the tongue should be committed passionately to her anal cavity. Do this for so long that she rewards you with a strong orgasm. Just before you feel it coming on, you can even push your tongue a little bit into her anus and thus additionally stimulate her.

Continue by licking her feet

Turn your partner over on her back again and do not let her rest for too long. Keep her body excited and make her feel even hotter. Let her know you still want more and that she is in for even more pleasure. Show her you want more orgasms from her and that you would do anything to achieve this. Get to work on her feet, toes and soles. Massage them with your fingers first, then with the tongue as well. Lick them slowly, with pleasure and in such a way that she sees you really like them, that you are doing this for yourself as well and not only for her. The feet are a powerful erogenous zone as well and you can focus on them in many different ways. Suck each toe individually, lick the sole very hard and in such a way that she really feels your tongue. You can also use your teeth and stimulate her in this way as well. While licking her feet, you can also stimulate her vagina with your hand. This will make her literally begging for your tonguebetween her legs. If you feel the second orgasm coming on, do not ease off and continue massaging her vagina and licking her feet until she comes.

At the end, go to her crotch and give her a wild orgasm. (PhotoXpress)

There is nothing finer: vagina

Once you settle down a bit, start again. Like we said, do not let her cool off and rest for too long. Believe us, the female body is capable of multiple orgasmswithout any big breaks, which means that you can continue and get right to the main dish. Start by licking the inner part of her thighs and only skim the vagina slightly. Continue by kissing her Venus mound and just lightly touch the clitoris. Stimulate her slowly, so she will start longing and she will be going crazy from wanting to feel your tongue. Then use it. Lick her all over, lick her deep inside, drink her juices and work on her clitoris. Do whatever you want and everything you know she will enjoy. You can also penetrate her with your tongue. Lick also the area between the anus and the vagina. Show her you are in paradise and that you want her to be in paradise too. Keep your head facing forward at first, then move it to the side, then forward again. If she wishes, she may also sit on your face and rub up against your tongue and mouth. Take all her desires into consideration and offer her everything your tongue is capable of. The orgasm will be strong and such that you too will be transported into another dimension. When it is over, do not back off. Continue by gently kissing the entire crotch. Drink her juices and show her total commitment and love ... If your tongue doesn't fall off, you were not trying hard enough.
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What To Do When She Doesn’t Come?

joi, 13 mai 2010 17:46 Publicat de Adrian
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Many women can’t reach an orgasm during intercourse. Check what you can do to finally make her come.

She should tell you what feels good to her

A woman has to be very specific and clear when she tells her man what she likes during intercourse. If she doesn’t do that, there’s a big problem because the man will be trying things the wrong way and he’ll be pushing the wrong buttons. If a woman can reach an orgasm when she’s alone, she can also reach one with a man, especially if she does very similar things and is able to relax enough. The man has to make sure his lady feels relaxed around him. She shouldn’t be embarrassed talking about sex, her feelings and desires. She should show everything to him and demonstrate what turns her on with concrete examples. When a man notices that the woman isn’t responding to his stimulation, he has to ask her if he’s doing it right, if she likes what he’s doing and if she wants him to do something else. A man who doesn’t do this already denies himself all chance of her orgasm at the start. He has to be persistent, which means that he has to keep repeating the questions and has to relax her for a longer period. This can mean as long as a whole year. It depends on the woman and how open she is to such things. A man must try to get into her soul and also conquer all her erogenous zones in the right way, especially if she’s a bit more reserved and if she had problems reaching an orgasm with previous partners as well.

A man must be very committed and persistent when working on a woman if he wants her to reach an orgasm. (PhotoXpress)

Marathon foreplay

Long foreplay and the spontaneity connected to it are very important for reaching an orgasm. You should definitely not do things like robots or machines which learn advice by heart from some erotic book. Be committed and passionate when you start foreplay. Your partner should melt beneath your tongue and hands. It’s exactly the tongue which could make an orgasm happen for even the least relaxed and coldest woman, especially if you lick her for a really long time and if you don’t give up even when she has given up. Let’s get something straight, half an hour of licking the crotch is definitely not enough, especially if you want her orgasm at all costs and if you want her to get used to coming with you as well. This is where many men make a mistake. They give up too soon. After a few minutes, they don’t feel like it anymore and they think the woman should have reached an orgasm a long time ago. Perhaps they’re confused by the fact that they’re not good at what they’re doing and that they can’t lick their partners well enough. It’s wrong to think like that, especially if she has told you what she likes and how you have to lick her. The trick is in the time. Even if it takes a whole hour, make an effort and persist. Let her really enjoy it, so that she can really relax and she has to be aware that she’s in no hurry and you’re enjoying every minute of it. The feeling that you’re starting to think of it as work and when you start looking at the time is what kills her orgasm. This will make an orgasm come much later. So, let her know that you won’t stop and always keep encouraging her with your words and by complimenting her crotch. Use your fingers, beads or anything else to help you. Basically, take your time and focus on her until she comes. If it doesn’t work the first time, try it the same way the second time. If it doesn’t work the second time, try it the third, forth and fifth time. Do it for so long and so intensely that she really gets used to you and she starts coming all the time. That’s right, a woman has to get used to you and has to trust you. Only then will she be able to relax enough and open up, so that she can start experiencing orgasms.

There's always a way where there's enough will-power! (PhotoXpress)

What if you can’t last long enough?

This can also sometimes be a problem – that a man comes too soon and the woman is left hanging out to dry because she would need longer penetration. But we feel men only come too soon because they forget that the ejaculation can be postponed and little breaks can be taken. They can also combine penetration with the use of their tongue and fingers. They can also use a vibrator or any other accessory. When a man feels he’s just before an orgasm, he should simply stop, wait a bit and continue again. If even this isn’t enough, he should pull his penis out and continue working with his fingers and tongue, then use his penis again. We really don’t see a problem with this and we’re convinced that a woman can also reach a nice orgasm without any problems with a man incapable of long penetration. The female orgasm is, therefore, greatly dependant on the man as well. That’s why we say to all men not to rush things and be persistent because the effort will pay off in the end.

Advise her to masturbate more often

This may sound unusual, but it’s very useful. A woman who can take herself to an orgasm will also be able to show it to her partner. What’s more – she’ll also know how to satisfy herself in front of him and thus he won’t have to guess what more he can do to finally make her come. So, encourage her to get to know her body better and then encourage her to bring her new-found knowledge – a woman can teach herself how to reach an orgasm – into your bed as well, without any reservations. It’ll also be a lot of fun!
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How To Make Him Cum Faster?

17:35 Publicat de Adrian
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Tonight is not exactly your night and you would much rather sleep than jump on top of him till you are too tired to move. Check how you can make him cum faster and thus get your well-earned sleep.


Make him cum faster and get your well-earned sleep. (PhotoXpress)
There are days when women are not in the mood and have no desire for cuddling, touching and making love to their partner. But what to do when your partner is horny as hell and insists on shagging you despite you telling him how very tired you are and how sleepy you are becoming? There are a number of solutions how to make him cum faster. Continue reading and find out what advice Paul Joannides has to give in his book The guide to getting it on:

How to make him cum faster #1: Stretch the skin

If you stretch the skin at the root of his penis, he will feel stimulation more intensively and as a result it will make him cum faster (if he does not postpone his ejaculation, of course, and thus extend the pleasure and with it the duration of you pleasing him).

How to make him cum faster #2: Tease his frenulum

The frenulum is the most sensitive part of the male sexual organ. It is the part of the penis situated directly under the head of the penis and looks like a connection point or a stitch. By stimulating it you will accelerate ejaculation, especially if you use a lubricant to moisten the dry area a bit. If you are giving pleasure with your mouth, tease the frenulum with the tip of your tongue, and if you are using your hands, slide across the area applying a lot of pressure with your fingers. Be careful not to apply too much pressure because mangling the extremity by using too much force and speed can cause the numbness of the penis. This may eventually prevent you from making him cum faster and thus reaching the world of dreams for quite some time.

How to make him cum faster #3: Squeeze and turn

When engaging in “jerking off” do not forget to oil your hands and hold the penis with your entire palm and twist the dick spirally up and down. It should feel as though you were holding an ice-cream cone which has the intertwining red and green strap going round it and you were following only one colour. You can try the same with your mouth during oral sex, but do not overdo the twisting or you will dislocate your neck. Also use your other hand, which should be focused on the stimulation of his crotch.

How to make him cum faster #4: Play with yourself

Nothing is more exciting than a woman fondling her breasts or pubic area. Some men may get so turned on by this that they begin masturbating themselves. If you are so tired that you do not feel like going down on his crotch and orally satisfying him, this will be a great trick, which will quickly bring you the sleep you desire because he will make himself cum faster than you ever could.

How to make him cum faster #5: Pleasure buttons

Some men have at the bottom of their penis just under their pouch (but it can be found as far back as the edge of the anus) a hidden button which, when we apply pressure to, magnifies the intensity of the sensation a great deal. If you are well familiar with your partner’s anatomy and thus know when the best time to press this button would be, you can accelerate the launch of his rocket andmake him cum faster than by just using normal stimulation. Those of you most skilled at giving blow jobs can provide oral treatment for his dick while at the same time stimulating his pleasure buttons.

How to make him cum faster #6: Finger on/in the ass

Although men may seem very much averse to this, they usually like it a lot. A wet finger on or even in his anal opening can excite someone so much that it will make him cum faster than ever.

You might want to warn your partner before attempting #6 though.
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Pamper Your Girlfriend

luni, 10 mai 2010 12:37 Publicat de Adrian
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Men rarely remember to pamper their girls. Well, men, you should do it more often!

Pamper her as much as possible and let her know she is your goddess. (PhotoXpress)

Pamper your girlfriend - Step 1

When your girl comes home from work tired, greet her with a bouquet of flowers, a warm embrace and a kind word. Then take her shoes off, put her on the couch and start gently massaging her feet and back. Put some gentle music on, dim the lights and prepare some candles and incense. After the massage, take her to the bathroom, where a tub full of warm and bubbling water is waiting for her. When she gets in, wash her back, legs and face with a cloth. Be gentle, caress her, give her lots of kisses and make sure she relaxes. Then, wash her whole body and pamper her. Show her that she is your goddess.

Pamper your girlfriend - Step 2

Sexy underwear is usually worn by women, but men can charm, surprise and make their ladies hot with their underwear just as well. You can choose either really sexy boxer shorts which accentuate your ass, or a see through thong you can buy in erotic shops. If you wish, you can also put on shorts that your girl can eat or lick from your body. So, put on some sexy underwear, charm her and make her really hot. If she wants, you can strip for her, or you can just walk in front of her in your underwear and arouse her with your movements. It's time topamper your girlfriend visually.

Pamper your girlfriend - Step 3

This is also usually done by women, but men can also pamper their girlfriends in this area. You can trim or completely remove your pubic and armpit hair. The woman will gladly accept your smoothness and will undoubtedly reward you with some hot oral intercourse. You can joke around and arrange the hair into something like a heart or the initial of her name. So, be brave and creative and show her that you really did this just for her.

Pamper your girlfriend - Step 4

If the day belongs only to her, logically, so does the sex. That is why you should pay special attention to foreplay and do the things that really feel good to her. And keep doing them, like it was a marathon, in a way so she literally melts. Pamper your girlfriend with fondling, massaging, rubbing and licking. Keep it up, be committed and passionate. Do not stop at the first orgasm. Go further and try for more. Let her know that you are only interested in her pleasure and that you are aroused if she is. You give and she receives. Fulfill her every wish, even the ones that you might not like. Make an effort and make the special day truly special. Your girl really should be goddess so satisfy her and pamper her like never before. After you finish, embrace and squeeze her, hug her and tell her over and over again that you love her and could not live without her. And do not worry; What goes around comes around. If you pamper your girlfriend, she will return the favor threefold.
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